The INFJ

The INFJ personality in the Myers Briggs universe makes for a great friend, lover, and parent. For those of you who don’t know what INFJ stands for it’s: introverted, intuition, feeling, and judging. Myers Briggs is a personality test that groups four different traits found on a spectrum into 16 different personalities.

The INFJ in Myers Briggs is one of the most complicated, mysterious, and alluring personalities when it comes to romance. They honestly have a hard time understanding why you can’t tell that you like them because they feel like a bursting volcano, but all of that is below the surface. The introverted, intuitive, feeler, and judger is meant for romance in their life.

The INFJ doesn’t like being too practical or down to earth. They want someone that they can explore their weird, imaginative side with. They like someone who is creative, musical, artsy, and philosophical. They worry that if you don’t plunge into weirdness with them then you won’t actually truly accept them.

The INFJ will let you in on their inner world if they like you. They want to make sure that you won’t just accept them for their outer qualities, but their inner ones — which are pure weird fluid imagination droplets. If they’re letting you read their writing, hear their songs, and so forth — they probably like you.

An INFJ is hard to read often times because they’re modest, slow to move, and yet engaging, charming, and smart. If an INFJ keeps prompting conversations with and always replies to what you say — they’re trying to keep it consistent.